Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Organizing a Home: Principles & Tips for Organization, part 1 of 2

Bob and I choose to organize our home just like organizing our time – on purpose.  We try to use all of the spaces (or minutes) efficiently and without waste.  Our stuff can manage us – controlling where we can go in our home, how we function there, whether or not we invite people in, and how much we enjoy being there – or we can manage our stuff and have freedom!  *smile*  Here are three main reasons we choose to organize our home.  If we’re not organized then we waste:

1.  TIME by looking for things we need, or shopping for things we already have;
2.  FINANCES by spending money on items we don’t need and already have but don’t know it; and
3.  ENERGY that we don’t want to waste!  
 
In this post, part 1 of “Organizing a Home”, I will share with you both some general organizational principles I keep in mind for organizing our home, and some specific organizational tips for how I organize three of the rooms, including photos.  Part 2 will be a continuation, how the rest of the rooms are organized including tips and photos as well.  I hope it’s helpful.  *smile*  The rooms I’ll cover in this first post will be:

- The Play Room / Computer Room
- The Kitchen
- The Master Closet

The rest of the rooms in our home are cover in Part 2, which includes:  the Family Room, our Desk, Dining Room, Bathrooms, Pantry, Linen Closet, Master Bedroom, Boys Bedroom, Girls Bedroom, Laundry Room, Under the Stairs Closet, Garage Kids’ Clothing Closet, Garage “Mud Room”, Garage Tool Room, Storage Shed, and the Back Yard.

(To help ensure your success with organizing a home, I would encourage you to also read my post on De-cluttering a home before you dive in.  *smile*  It’s actually very simple to organize manageable amounts of stuff.)

So the main idea for organizing is that everything has a 'home' where it lives (and I don’t mean the last place it was played with *smile* – but somewhere chosen intentionally and proactively).  Everything.  If it doesn’t have a home it can’t be put away, right?  Homeless items just get moved around the house.  And it takes training for children to learn how to put things away where they belong instead of contributing to disorder and chaos; with 9 children we could never keep up with trying to be orderly while they follow along behind leaving a trail of chaos.  

Living in chaos is not a good practice for the children, or for parents, or for their own future families.  We help the children understand this and when we ask them to put something away (even the smallest toy item) they need to know where it goes, and they need to put it where it belongs – no where else.  If we ask them to put something away and they choose to move that item (toys, clothes, books, etc.) to another location in the house but do not put it where it belongs, that is deliberate disobedience and carelessness (a character issue requiring training).  I encourage you to start developing in your children valuable organizing skills and good habits for their lives.  By purchasing tubs for the children’s toys we are investing in their ability to learn to be organized.

Now we do have toys, for example, scattered around the house every day as the children play with them – but when it’s time for the next part of our day to begin, whether that’s homeschooling, or a meal, or bed time, everything gets put away where it belongs.  We experience difficulties focusing and being productive while having toys scattered all around the house during homeschooling or meal times, so all toys must be out of sight in the play room.  Those frustrations of trying to keep the children's attention and productivity are avoidable!  Here are examples of problems from toys not being put away,

- Toys scattered around the house are a distraction to the kids, keeping them from staying on task with other things we’ve asked them to do (homeschooling, chores, preparing to leave the house…).

- Toys that do not have all of their pieces or parts because they are not kept as sets don’t get played with - such as Mr. Potato Head, Legos, Matchbox cars, puzzles, Transformers, wood blocks (but are taking up valuable space).

- Toys especially on stairs can cause people to trip and fall seriously, possibly even causing a parent to drop a young child they may be carrying, or break an ankle.

- We can end up purchasing extra toys that we didn’t need (thinking the children don’t have enough to occupy them, but in actuality they just don’t play with what they already have), which is a waste of money, of space, and of time.

There is some financial investment required for organizing spaces, but it doesn’t have to be expensive.  It can be simply done.  Also keep in mind that the investment is not just financial – we are helping ourselves be more calm and peaceful and pleasant; the children be more successful; everyone being more safe; and we're enabling and teaching our children how to be organized by providing them with the tools to do so.  

Children may tend to wander around looking for things to do, or trying to find the pieces they need, but when their home is organized they can just choose an activity and utilize all the time they have to play.  Organization is so valuable.  I have had so many people tell me that they were taught next-to-nothing about organization growing up, and now they feel completely handicapped in their own family.  I encourage you to give your children this skill.  And living in an organized home is so very relaxing and calming – it’s very, very worth the money spent on it, as well as the time and energy spent for it.  Here are some principles I follow for organizing our home.


I. ORGANIZATIONAL  PRINCIPLES

- Everything needs a ‘home’. 

- Don't be afraid to throw things away!  We try not to let our stuff manage us.  We give it away and hope to bless others who do need it.

- Before buying an item I decide where it’s ‘home’ will be.  Sometimes in order to bring more in to our home we need to take something else out to make room.

- If items don’t fit in to our home in an orderly way, we don’t have room for them in our home. 

- Keep very (very) little on the floor.  It’s difficult to clean around items on the floor, and it adds a cluttered look, feel, and smell.  It is difficult if not impossible to clean under or around piles on the floor, leaving dust and dust mites to remain there (a dust mite is a bug that is microscopic, but does defecate leaving a dead-animal smell - ewww).  Things left on the floor are more likely to get broken.  And when some things are left lying around it actually promotes everything else being left lying around.

- Organization is not just a weekend project; it is a life-style in how we think and in our attitude.  It is intentional living – On Purpose.

- We try to have only what we use all the time out, visible, and handy.  Everything else can be stored in clear plastic boxes or drawers in closets, in the garage, or in under-the-bed boxes – whether that’s seasonal clothes, seasonal decorations, extra office supplies, whatever.  With clear boxes we can see what’s in them and not waste time getting them down to look inside to see what’s in them; and so that we don’t inadvertently keep stuff we didn’t even know was there because we couldn’t see it.

- If I as the mom do not keep our home clutter-free and organized, then my husband and children are not likely to do so, either.  If I keep a cluttered, disorganized home, yet I say to them, “You really need to keep things picked up and put away”, they’ll probably think to themselves, “…Why?”  I may get so frustrated that people are leaving clothes on the floor or toys out, but if I do not set a standard of tidiness then others will degenerate in to that same standard.  

- Objects on the walls are to be displayed in odd-numbered groups (1 item, 3 or 9 items, etc.).  My mother taught me that this is naturally pleasing to the eye. *smile*

- Piles equal disorder and clutter. However here's a tip - Almost anything put in a basket looks like it belongs there.  *wink*

- It’s important to take responsibility for our God-given space.  If we are responsible with the little things in life then He will give us the privilege and responsibility of bigger things!  *smile* 


II. ORGANIZATIONAL  TIPS:  How I Choose to Organize Each Room of Our House

We often have friends coming over just to see our house, and see how we fit 11 people in to 1,100 sq. ft. so comfortably.  *chuckle*  They even like to take pictures with their cell phones of our organizational strategies to take home to show a spouse.  *chuckle*  If you would like a virtual Tour of Our Home with just the photos and no organizational tips you may do so; if you would like the organizational tips to go with each room, you may see that here beginning in this post.   I will share with you how and why we organize each room of our home.  I hope seeing what we do is helpful to you.  I encourage you to keep in mind that many of these tips can be applied to a variety of rooms, not just the rooms that I currently apply them to in our home.  Also, remember that we did not do all of these ideas at once; it’s been gradual.  We’ve adjusted how we do things out of necessity when the Lord has added another precious child to our family, and we’ve learned from past mistakes. 

By the way, most everything you’ll see in our home we bought used from Craig’s List (i.e. we buy book shelves, couches, camera gear, picture frames, cribs, strollers, …), consignment or thrift stores (all of our clothing, shoes, curtains, matching bed linens, etc.).  And we only bring in to our home that which fits in an orderly way.  When we’ve had a need for more things or more children to fit into our house and it doesn’t look possible, we ask the Lord what His plan for us is and He faithfully shows us.  Sometimes that means re-organizing an area so that things fit and work beautifully, and sometimes it means letting go of some things we thought was a needed, and He shows us how that it really wasn’t a “need” after all.  Let’s take a walk through the first three rooms of our home that I’ll cover here in part 1. 


Playroom / Computer Room

- We store all toys with parts/pieces in CLEAR containers.  We use plastic storage boxes with lids, clear plastic drawers (each drawer can be taken out and taken to the area the child would like to play in), in the clear plastic zipping bags that bed sheets come in, in the 5”x7” clear hard-plastic containers with screw-on lids that some Costco foods come in (such as their Jelly Bellies), or in gallon-size, clear zip-lock baggies for small pieces (i.e. GI Joe or Strawberry Shortcake accessories).


- From our experience, if kids can’t see activity choices they won’t play with them.  Kids cannot rehearse all of their options in their minds like adults can; they need to see their choices (and so do very visual adults, like myself!)  This way toys can also be kept so that children can find an activity in it’s entirety with all the pieces. 

- We give a child the weekly job of cleaning out the toy baskets and putting small lost pieces with sets they belong with.  It’s a good job for a young one, to help them learn to have some responsibility, and help them learn the value of putting toys where they belong in the first place.

- It’s nice to have a couple shallow baskets for miscellaneous toys; ones that don’t have a set to belong to, like medium-size cars (not matchbox), those 3 super hero figurines the kids like, a ball, the toy phone, toy calculator, a harmonica.  Keep them shallow so that they don’t become a catch-all or a “black hole” for any toys, though.  If containers are too deep kids won’t see or play with the bottom 50%, and things get lost.

- I try never to stack anything, even decorations, on top of book shelves as much as possible.  Keeping it clear gives a room an open, spacious feeling.

- All books are kept vertical, never horizontal which gives a piled, cluttered look.  And yes, I do have to teach the kids to do this, and the ones who aren’t old enough to get books onto the shelf vertically between other books just stack them vertically and then periodically myself or an older sibling just takes those and stands them upright and with the bindings facing outward.

- Homeschool curriculum books are kept in this room in a couple of the cubbies.

- There is a CD player ($22 from Wal-Mart) in here for the kids’ music or audio books.

- The large white shelf unit is from Ikea ($200 EXPEDIT) – they are awesome.  We have these same shelves in the kids clothing closet (Clothing Organization).  They hold about 4 dressers worth of clothing each, or lots of toys in tubs, or tons of books.  These shelf units can also be purchased in smaller sizes.

- Dress up clothes are kept in large clear plastic tubs, one stacked on top of another (two are here in the play room and the other 3 large tubs are stacked in the garage).

- Some of the kids art work is framed on the wall; I think it looks orderly to have some framed, and the kids are all the more proud to have it displayed this way.

- The children’s music Cd’s and tapes are kept in a basket on top of the computer desk.

- We only have one task chair at the computer desk right now and use folding chairs when there are more kids at the computer.  This keeps our floor space freed up for playing which is more important at this time than having permanent chairs at the computers.

- Kids computers were either given to us (old ones that someone no longer wanted) or purchased used/refurbished.

- In the closet my husband installed deep white wire shelving.  Here we keep craft supplies in clear plastic drawers, some of the supplies in clear plastic tubs with lids.  Coloring books and Mad Libs, office supplies (such as extra pens/pencils, tape dispensers, post-it notes, staples, etc.), scrapbook supplies for the kids (I scrapbook online, to see how and why I do this click here Family Scrapbooking), paints and all crafts, etc.
 



- In this far left pocket of the closet my husband recently installed these shelves for me to organize all the kids games that were falling out of the closet on the other side.  So nice!  *smile*  There is also my iron, sewing box, broom, vacuum, rotary cutting mat, and ironing board.


Our Kitchen

- I use decorative, upright file organizers for my “desk” on the kitchen counter.  Paper stored upright doesn’t look like piles.  (If you would like to read about how I organize my space and time, you can read about that here in my post, Managing My Time.)

- We do not have a catch-all “junk drawer”.

- My couple of bookbooks book that I use often and 3 recipe binders (if you’d like to see how I organize recipes you can read my post, Recipie Organization) are standing up on top of the refrigerator between book ends.

- The food processor is also on top of the refrigerator with dish towels draped over them to keep the dust off; this greatly frees up my little bit of counter space.

- The kitchen cupboards are so few that we do not keep pantry foods here but rather dishes for eating on, pans and dishes for cooking or serving food, a couple flower vases, Ziplock baggies and Saran Wrap, ex-long grilling utensils, and spices and baking powder and such.



- I use two-tiered turn tables in the cupboards for spices (keeping them off my limited counter space), and single turn tables for tall cooking items such as oil.

- All of the food items are in the pantry which we converted from a coat closet – to see how we did this you may read my post, Creating a Food Pantry).

- We have 3 kitchen drawers in our kitchen (yes, there’s only 3) and a knife drawer.  The top drawer holds silverware (20 place settings worth), and the bottom two drawers hold cooking utensils (again, only the ones we use all the time, no unused duplicates).  On the knife drawer my husband installed some very powerful magnets so that our toddlers cannot open it.  I have to use both hands to open this knife drawer now, but the kids can’t get to them as they were able to before.

- We have one refrigerator upstairs and another one down in the garage.  Upstairs I keep only the ingredients I need in the next few days and that keeps it comfortably full.

- We keep both a recycle can and a garbage can underneath the sink, both of which get emptied daily.  I had to shop around for a small can for recycle to fit behind the front garbage can beside the sink plumbing, but I did find one.  *smile*

- I keep kitchen cleaning supplies in a plastic basket and tub under the sink so that when they dribble a bit over time I can easily clean the tub out and not have the inside of the cupboard sticky, damaged or molding.


-We have one pull-out wood cutting board above the 3 drawers, but keep an additional cutting board standing up underneath the sink which we frequently pull out for an additional work area.

- I keep only about a dozen pieces of Tupperware of varying sizes because I don’t realistically ever use more than that.  I nest the containers, and “file” the lids smallest to largest into a clear plastic box that I can pull out of the cupboard like a drawer.  I do keep a couple of real large Tupperware containers in the garage for delivering meals to friends; but those don’t need to live in the kitchen.

- I prefer plain white paper towels (instead of colored patterned ones) because they’re fairly invisible, and my eyes is drawn to the decorations in the kitchen (curtain, carpet, hand towels, teapot) instead of the paper towels.

- We use sponges to clean the kitchen with instead of a cloth, because they seem easier to keep clean of food, and they don’t need to be draped over the faucet to dry.  When I wipe off the counter tops with an old sponge the counters smell bad; so after I’ve disinfected our sponge a couple of times when it needs it (microwave it for several seconds; kills smelly bacteria), and it’s started getting brown-ish looking, I just pitch it and get a new one out of the package.  Sponges are so cheap it's worth it to me, and to have a clean-smelling kitchen makes me smile and I enjoy working there.

- Periodically I give the tea pot a quick scrub with dish brush so it's not greasy from splattered food.

- One of the kids has the job of cleaning off the stove top really well once-a-week so that stays generally clean (I wipe it down after cooking on it, but it gets a deep scrub weekly).  I really like to prepare food in a clean kitchen.

- One child also has the weekly job of washing kitchen “faces” – the fronts of the cupboards (and inside the cupboard holding the garbage can, where food tends to splatter), the front of the dishwasher, front of the refrigerator, and front of the stove.  Done regularly it only takes a couple of minutes, but this really helps the kitchen look clean.

- We chose a kitchen faucet that has a removable “bell” end to it, which we can pull out on a hose and handle easily to wash large cooking dishes, or wash out the sink – this is wonderful, I use it countless times a day.

- We keep a fire extinguisher underneath the kitchen sink, too.


Master Closet

- This shelf unit in our master closet (which actually belongs on the boy's bedroom, but they wouldn't stop climbing on it so we are currently using it) contains my sweaters, extra throw blankets, the 4 and 5-year-old boy's and the 3-year-old twin girls pajamas (since we change them upstairs at night time before bed), extra diapers, packages of baby wipes, and my purses and bags.  And my purse lives in our closet because it's out of eye sight and reach by kids, which has proven necessary.  *wink*

- In the dresser changing table (enclosed and uncluttered-looking compared to an open-shelf changing table) I keep all of the baby’s items:  diaper-changing supplies, clothes, night time sleeping pants (thick cotton absorbing like pullups but not disposable) and extra changing table pads. 

- I put away some of the winter clothes in summer and summer clothes in winter.  This keeps our closet manageable, easy to see our choices each day, and smelling nice because clothes aren’t heaped in piles all over, or stacked so deep that we never see or use the bottom 75% of them.

- After doing a massive closet clean out a while ago we only keep our favorite clothes (we only wear those anyway, right?); all the rest that we never wore or were the wrong size we gave away.  Now we can choose to wear anything we see in the closet, instead of having the disappointment and frustration of only being able to wear about 5% of what was in there because I've gone through about 6 sizes of clothes (for every season) due to having had 9 pretnancies.  *smile*  Our closet now feels so nice to me. 

- We have one large clothing hamper with a lid (keeps dirty laundry smell inside) in here for ours and the youngest kids' clothes whom we change in to pj's in our room at night.

- I use only inexpensive white plastic hangers for a uniformed look on our hanging racks.  This can be  inexpensively achieved by purchasing just one package of several hangers for a couple of collars per weekly shopping trip.  I’ve also started purchasing only the heavy-duty plastic ones, as the cheaper thinner plastic ones tend to have their hooks break off very easily with a heavy coat, or if someone hooks or unhooks the hanger carelessly or too quickly.

- The left side has a dresser changing table, containing our "baby's" clothes (they're actually currently 3-years-old *chuckle*).

- I also have 2 free-standing white wire shelf units in our closet which contain all of the medicines, first aid, extra toiletries, overnight bags, extra boxes of cotton rounds or Q-tips, and feminine hygiene products.  We have clear plastic drawers (shoebox size), one for kids medicines, adult medicines, first aid supplies, and suntan lotions & aloes.  Then I have one clear plastic box without a lid (so I can see through the side of it what’s in there) on top of the shelf for the larger items such as packages of cough drops, NyQuil and DayQuil, and caster oil.


So!  *smile*  I hope this was a nice taste of how we choose to organize our home and why, and I hope these Principles & Tips were helpful for you!  Part 2 of “Organizing a Home” covers the rest of the rooms in our home.


Blessings on your efforts!




36 comments:

  1. Thank you, thank you, thank you! You have given me some great ideas on how to organize my large family! (Not that I'm completely unorganized, but sometimes I need some fresh ideas when I'm at a standstill in what to do!) Can't wait for Part 2!

    God bless,
    Jessica

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  2. Wow! Great ideas! I recently got rid of half of my cookbooks, I need to go through them again. I love cookbooks but I don't use them, maybe one or two. ;).

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  3. JESSICA - Oh you're welcome! I'm so pleased you got some ideas that you're excited about. =)!

    LAUREE - I so understand about having a lot of stuff you like. LOL I especially like kitchen utensils, and purses! But I've had to clean those out, like you and cook books, because I didn't use all the pieces or purses, and didn't have room to store them, therefore. ;)

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  4. Thank you, again! I appreciated your comments about organizing sometimes costing some money. With the possibility of moving, I have been hesitant to buy things we needed to organize, but after decluttering my son's room and getting rid of most of his toys, he needed something! All he had in his room was his bed and a dresser; it is a very small room! The bins that held his 3 types of toys were difficult for him to open and maintain. My husband laughed at the anguish I had over a $20 set of plastic drawers, but it made ALL the difference! He can keep his own room clean now. Sanity-saver! (Having fewer toys to keep up helped, too! ;) !)

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  5. JENNIFER - Yay! LOl You're cute. I'm so pleased you "took the plunge"! And yay for self-sufficiency in your little man!

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  6. Hi Erika, what a bunch of awesome posts on here...I am (at the moment at least) very discouraged and overwhelmed by our DISorganization and know we're not utilizing our small home to its fullest. Thanks for all the ideas, once our newest babe finds his groove I hope to give several of these things a try!

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  8. KARISSA - I'm so sorry you've felt so discouraged about disorganization. I hope you find some encouraging ideas from our blog to help you; but yes, I would encourage you to wait until your newest baby is into a routine and you can get some good rest. For me at least, life is too hard when I'm extremely tired. *hug*

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  9. Erika, we also have "towel time". :). I am wondering if you allow access to the "towel time" toys during free play parts of the day, or if those are kept separately? Thanks!

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  10. BETH - Yes, we have all activities available all the time for a couple of reasons: I don't have room to store activities that we'll use only some of the time and are off limits other times; and it seems like those activities wouldn't get used enough before they were no longer age-appropriate. Sounds like a nice idea, and I'm sure it would bring great success for towel time, but it seems like a luxury we just don't have, and towel time works fine w/o doing that for us. *smile*

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  11. Erica, Thanks for responding. I also let my kids play with the "towel time" toys. Just wanted to get your perspective. :). Also, I have never made a list of those activities, so that is definitely on my "to-do" list now. Thanks for the great ideas!

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  12. I love your ideas. I have a large family of 9 children and we are always looking for more tips. I appreciate your wonderful blog and you sharing your ideas.

    Blessings,
    Shawnee

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  13. SHAWNEE - Thank you! Glad you're here! =) *cheers* to your family of 9, too!

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  14. Erika, I have been enjoying your blog the past few days after a friend mentioned it on facebook. Thank you so much it is an encouragement. We just bought our first home for our family of 6 and it is 1268 square feet. We do get some strange responses as to if we have enough room. I will refer them to your blog next time someone makes a negative comment. Praise the Lord God gave us our home with no mortgage! and would much rather have someone comment on how we can fit in our home than how we could afford to pay for a larger one with an expensive mortgage!

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  15. LOGAN FAMILY - Can I Just say that I am so impressed that you've chosen to buy a home that you can own debt free! What a blessing to your family, and to your husband - what a debt off of his shoulders. Blessings to you.

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  16. Awesome! I'm a homeschooling mama of seven blessings. We also live in a small house. It seems like we are always looking for a better way to fit our family into our home. I'm so encouraged by your posts on de-cluttering and organizing!

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  17. I love this post, and keep coming back to read it for encourgement when I need to "tweek" our small home!

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  18. Great ideas! You have given me some great ideas on how to organize my large family!


    free standing closet

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  19. I have been saving those zippered clear bags from curtain purchases for a while now, and I almost pitched them last week. Seeing how you used them here makes me glad I did not! Thanks for the idea.

    Blessings,

    Heather

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  20. WOW! Thanks for all the information! We have 4 biological children (with a 5th on the way) and one foster baby(possible forever family member). We are on our way to decluttering and making our home even more functional! Thanks for the tips!

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  21. hey I love the white shelves you have for the laundry i have been trying to find something like that for a while! I have very rough lol to be positive kids and so we really HAVE to have very sturdy items other wise I am replacing every few months sigh. Yours look like tey are maybe pretty sturdy. Are they real wood or particle board? Where did you get them? Thank you for all the ideas!! :)

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    1. Trista,
      Hmm...well do you mean the laundry ROOM? Those are white wire shelving from Home Depot. Or do you mean the kids' CLOSET for storing clothes? The white shelving with baskets/boxes? Those are particle board but thick, and covered with plastic, from Ikea; but they're very durable and long-lasting (unless kids climb on them repeatedly, then the shelves can break over time. And a great price for shelves of that size. About $200 for one shelf unit. And they hold a TON. =)

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  22. Amazing Organization Skills! God has blessed you with the skills to provide and raise a fulfilled family! I am posting onto our Facebook Page, your page can benefit a lot of our followers. Thank you!

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  23. Erika could you maybe make a post about your children's favorite books,toys,activities for age groups? Also you said you use downy do you use regular scent or another scent? Wish I cod try that detergent but i live in Pa. Your blog is amazing! I really wish our home was as clutter free and organized. Hope is in the holiday air lol! My email is reneechiolanbrown79@yahoo.com Thanks so much for your time! Renee

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  24. I love your house, decorated so nicely, love the french country chic so pretty and you how many children ? (9) That is incredible. I can't keep up with our small house and (1) husband and (1) son.
    But with this post I can see more space in my house and how to organize seasonal clothes, toys, games, dvd's, food and get rid of the clutter. My trouble is when I get mail and papers from places like school and clinic appointments and insurance. It seems to just sit on the desk and I don't know where to put them because somethings I need close at hand to remind me of something. Like signing and sending in or taking with to drop off. Phone #'s written on pieces of paper getting lost. and so on any suggestions on that.

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    1. Here's how I do bills. =)
      http://www.largefamiliesonpurpose.com/2011/03/family-time-management-managing-my-time.html

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  25. All the time I feel like I gain a better understanding of ways to organize things. If you don't mind i'll add a few of the tips i've learned - especially as it related to mail.

    Our kitchen is small and there is not a lot of counter space. I took an old olive oil can and cut the top off (using the can opener). I decoupaged the can with fabric that matchs the kitchen. Now when mail comes into the house it goes into the oil can. by "mail" I mean papers from school, phone messages and business cards as well as actual mail from the usps. About once a week I go through the can and make sure that everything still here is there for a reason.

    The other biggie for us is me realizing that I have to be the captain of the organizing efforts. For a lot of years we had "house help" (grandma's, nannies, mommy's helpers, cleaning people, etc) and they organized things extremely well. Now that it's just us and the kids I expected that things would just stay organized based on old systems. How wrong I was. REcently I went through and systemized many areas of the house based on our current needs (instead of a system set up by grandma 3 years ago). It's been a wonderful revelation to have everything have a proper home. It makes me feel MUCH saner!

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  26. Hi Erika, Love reading your blog. It gives me great hope for what our home can be. We have 6 children (5 my own and 1 stepson). Do you have a suggestion for where in my home to start organizing? It is overwhelming to look at my house and say, "Where in the world do I start?!"

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    1. I encourage you to start with the smallest spaces, such as a junk drawer, or a small closet. Achieve accomplishment, reward, encouragement. And start with your *own* space, not your husband's or a child's. Set a good example first there. And this post may help you, too, in how to work on things while successfully managing your home.

      http://www.largefamiliesonpurpose.com/search/label/Large%20Family%20Matters

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  28. I notice my comment has been removed. I will pray for you that you one day have the ability to see opinions other than your own

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  29. Hi Erika! Love your blog and have read it for years, even before starting my own family. :) I have a few questions for you:

    1. The storage bins for outside...Do you leave them in the yard during Spring/Summer? Or do you pull them out of the shed each day. My yard is small and my kids have a lot of those "ride on" toys outside. No room in the shed for them lol. I keep their outdoor toys in a plastic toybox outside and it just stays there all year. BUT- I keep getting the mud/water issue in it.

    2. Totally unrelated to this post: Preparedness. Do you do anything like that for your family? I'm planning to make the 72 hr emergency bags for our family (based on recommendations by FEMA), and to be honest... I wish I had already. My youngest had a seizure and I was frantically trying to pack overnight bags for my kids. If I would have had it packed already, then I could have just grabbed them without the chaos. Just curious if you have plans for emergencies like that and the 'logistics/storage' for the size of your family.

    Ila from He Has MS

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    1. Bless you. =)
      We do leave them out all summer, but I usually have to buy new ones each year because they do get cracked and let in the water/mud. If they can seal closed with the lid then even when water or dirt gets in there it just dries out - if the lid is in tact. =/ But I also leave them one underneath the overhang of the roof a bit, and the other underneath a cedar tree which keeps it pretty dry most of the time.

      For preparedness we do have some in the van, here's that link.
      http://www.largefamiliesonpurpose.com/2011/10/mom-tips-for-car-organization.html
      But I don't have additional bags packed. I'd have no where to keep those, and I really can't keep extra clothes in them; we need to use all of our clothes. It's a good idea, though, especially for a smaller family.
      And we do have preparedness in our "deep pantry", too, with dried beans and rice, etc.

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  30. Your home is not at all inviting. It is sterile and cold. I feel sorry for your poor kids

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    1. Just because you don't have the same likes or dislikes as our family doesn't mean our home isn't wonderful for us. We all love it - it's our favorite place to be. You don't have to live here. Please keep your criticisms that benefit no one to yourself.

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